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So here's an idea which came about through Roberta and I chatting on another site. We were playing with a fantasy and then she had the brilliant idea of turning it into something of great practical use - a Pride Parade for us BDSM fans!

Just about every Western country has its own Pride events for the LGBT community, and quite rightly so. But what about us? It's got much easier now to "come out" to friends and family as gay, and nine times out of ten they won't be shocked. But try telling them you enjoy being stripped, bound and beaten, and you'll get some very odd looks at best, and suggestions you seek psychiatric help at worst. So this could be the way that those of us who want to can "come out" as Kinks!

This is how it would work, and I admit we've only really worked this out for submissives - it's a work in progress. First, you invite all the friends, family and colleagues that you want to come out to. A date and time is set, in the heart of a local city, where a large area is set aside (think Folsom Street Fair). A long row of crosses is set up either side of the road. Before the "Vanillas" arrive, each submissive is taken to the foot of a cross, stripped, whipped and then placed on it (ropes and cuffs only - I'm afraid this is a non-fatal crucifixion!). Before being put up, they write, in big letters, on a noticeboard, their name and a list of their "kinks & crimes". This noticeboard is then placed at the foot of their cross. One side of the road is for boys, the other for girls. When everyone's in place, then the crowds are let in!

Imagine the scene as each group of civilians walks along the line, looking for their particular friend, colleague, brother, sister, daughter, son, etc. And Imagine the exclamations when they find them! "Oh my God! Dave, we had no idea you were into being whipped!" "Bobbie! You mean you've been an anal slut all your life?" "Anne-Marie! We never even knew you were bisexual, let alone liked to be whipped by girls!"

Once the initial shock had faded, they could then "browse" the row of submissives, and hopefully learn something, as they take in the true beauty of the naked human body in all its diverse forms, and the infinite possibilities of human sexuality. At the end of the day, when the submissives are all taken down and allowed to go home with their loved ones, those households will be so much healthier for having one less set of secrets. I, of course, would want to be strapped onto a cross next to Roberta, so we could give each other comfort and support during the whole event.

So you're going to ask what would I have written on my board, before climbing the ladder up to the Cross? It changes everytime I play with this fantasy, but it would be something along the lines of...


BISEXUAL SLUT

EATS CUNT AND COCK

LOVES BEING WHIPPED AND STRAPPED, BRUTALLY

LOVES ROUGH SEX

LIKES IT UP THE ARSE

ENJOYS USING STRAP-ONS ON GIRLS AND BOYS

GETS WET AT THE THOUGHT OF BEING DISPLAYED NAKED IN PUBLIC


What would yours say?
 
I hate to steal your thunder but there already is one in San Francisco (naturally) called Folsom Street Fair that lasts a week. It is definitely not a 'family friendly' event as nudity is not only allowed but encouraged.

One of the interesting features is the various fund-raising booths. Some have pillories and X crosses where you can pay to be bound and whipped- as long as you strip first. These are in the wide open so anyone can watch and photograph!!!
 
So here's an idea which came about through Roberta and I chatting on another site. We were playing with a fantasy and then she had the brilliant idea of turning it into something of great practical use - a Pride Parade for us BDSM fans!

Just about every Western country has its own Pride events for the LGBT community, and quite rightly so. But what about us? It's got much easier now to "come out" to friends and family as gay, and nine times out of ten they won't be shocked. But try telling them you enjoy being stripped, bound and beaten, and you'll get some very odd looks at best, and suggestions you seek psychiatric help at worst. So this could be the way that those of us who want to can "come out" as Kinks!

This is how it would work, and I admit we've only really worked this out for submissives - it's a work in progress. First, you invite all the friends, family and colleagues that you want to come out to. A date and time is set, in the heart of a local city, where a large area is set aside (think Folsom Street Fair). A long row of crosses is set up either side of the road. Before the "Vanillas" arrive, each submissive is taken to the foot of a cross, stripped, whipped and then placed on it (ropes and cuffs only - I'm afraid this is a non-fatal crucifixion!). Before being put up, they write, in big letters, on a noticeboard, their name and a list of their "kinks & crimes". This noticeboard is then placed at the foot of their cross. One side of the road is for boys, the other for girls. When everyone's in place, then the crowds are let in!

Imagine the scene as each group of civilians walks along the line, looking for their particular friend, colleague, brother, sister, daughter, son, etc. And Imagine the exclamations when they find them! "Oh my God! Dave, we had no idea you were into being whipped!" "Bobbie! You mean you've been an anal slut all your life?" "Anne-Marie! We never even knew you were bisexual, let alone liked to be whipped by girls!"

Once the initial shock had faded, they could then "browse" the row of submissives, and hopefully learn something, as they take in the true beauty of the naked human body in all its diverse forms, and the infinite possibilities of human sexuality. At the end of the day, when the submissives are all taken down and allowed to go home with their loved ones, those households will be so much healthier for having one less set of secrets. I, of course, would want to be strapped onto a cross next to Roberta, so we could give each other comfort and support during the whole event.

So you're going to ask what would I have written on my board, before climbing the ladder up to the Cross? It changes everytime I play with this fantasy, but it would be something along the lines of...


BISEXUAL SLUT

EATS CUNT AND COCK

LOVES BEING WHIPPED AND STRAPPED, BRUTALLY

LOVES ROUGH SEX

LIKES IT UP THE ARSE

ENJOYS USING STRAP-ONS ON GIRLS AND BOYS

GETS WET AT THE THOUGHT OF BEING DISPLAYED NAKED IN PUBLIC


What would yours say?


Mine would say the following:

Mature pain slut


self-flagellant


masturbator


lesbian whore


anal fanatic


meat sow


lover of fellatio and cunnilingus

rims her lovers

loves facials but swallows


Receives in all orifices


Slave to the whip

loves FSG
 
So here's an idea which came about through Roberta and I chatting on another site. We were playing with a fantasy and then she had the brilliant idea of turning it into something of great practical use - a Pride Parade for us BDSM fans!

Just about every Western country has its own Pride events for the LGBT community, and quite rightly so. But what about us? It's got much easier now to "come out" to friends and family as gay, and nine times out of ten they won't be shocked. But try telling them you enjoy being stripped, bound and beaten, and you'll get some very odd looks at best, and suggestions you seek psychiatric help at worst. So this could be the way that those of us who want to can "come out" as Kinks!

This is how it would work, and I admit we've only really worked this out for submissives - it's a work in progress. First, you invite all the friends, family and colleagues that you want to come out to. A date and time is set, in the heart of a local city, where a large area is set aside (think Folsom Street Fair). A long row of crosses is set up either side of the road. Before the "Vanillas" arrive, each submissive is taken to the foot of a cross, stripped, whipped and then placed on it (ropes and cuffs only - I'm afraid this is a non-fatal crucifixion!). Before being put up, they write, in big letters, on a noticeboard, their name and a list of their "kinks & crimes". This noticeboard is then placed at the foot of their cross. One side of the road is for boys, the other for girls. When everyone's in place, then the crowds are let in!

Imagine the scene as each group of civilians walks along the line, looking for their particular friend, colleague, brother, sister, daughter, son, etc. And Imagine the exclamations when they find them! "Oh my God! Dave, we had no idea you were into being whipped!" "Bobbie! You mean you've been an anal slut all your life?" "Anne-Marie! We never even knew you were bisexual, let alone liked to be whipped by girls!"

Once the initial shock had faded, they could then "browse" the row of submissives, and hopefully learn something, as they take in the true beauty of the naked human body in all its diverse forms, and the infinite possibilities of human sexuality. At the end of the day, when the submissives are all taken down and allowed to go home with their loved ones, those households will be so much healthier for having one less set of secrets. I, of course, would want to be strapped onto a cross next to Roberta, so we could give each other comfort and support during the whole event.

So you're going to ask what would I have written on my board, before climbing the ladder up to the Cross? It changes everytime I play with this fantasy, but it would be something along the lines of...


BISEXUAL SLUT

EATS CUNT AND COCK

LOVES BEING WHIPPED AND STRAPPED, BRUTALLY

LOVES ROUGH SEX

LIKES IT UP THE ARSE

ENJOYS USING STRAP-ONS ON GIRLS AND BOYS

GETS WET AT THE THOUGHT OF BEING DISPLAYED NAKED IN PUBLIC


What would yours say?
I like your last choice. I guess I should use you more in my naked slave stories and the like! You would orgasm all day on the slave block and by sundown the whole street would smell like anchovies.
 
Just about every Western country has its own Pride events for the LGBT community, and quite rightly so. But what about us? It's got much easier now to "come out" to friends and family as gay, and nine times out of ten they won't be shocked. But try telling them you enjoy being stripped, bound and beaten, and you'll get some very odd looks at best, and suggestions you seek psychiatric help at worst. So this could be the way that those of us who want to can "come out" as Kinks!

This is how it would work, and I admit we've only really worked this out for submissives - it's a work in progress. First, you invite all the friends, family and colleagues that you want to come out to. A date and time is set, in the heart of a local city, where a large area is set aside (think Folsom Street Fair). A long row of crosses is set up either side of the road. Before the "Vanillas" arrive, each submissive is taken to the foot of a cross, stripped, whipped and then placed on it (ropes and cuffs only - I'm afraid this is a non-fatal crucifixion!). Before being put up, they write, in big letters, on a noticeboard, their name and a list of their "kinks & crimes". This noticeboard is then placed at the foot of their cross. One side of the road is for boys, the other for girls. When everyone's in place, then the crowds are let in!

Count me in !:)

Oh yes, it would be exciting if it ever could be done! Coming out like this. But I am afraid the world is far from ready for it!:(

In the mean time, what shall I write on my noticeboard? Let me think.:cool:
 
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Is that Barb "coming out" as kinky?
View attachment 301617 no, this one may look a little more like me, but I don't think I would like those clothes pins.:eek:

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could be me - the shorts, and the general attitude and body-language:

SLAVEGIRL

will try her best to do anything
yes, ANYTHING
a real Man Master orders
 
The grim reality :

«Even though the erotic film Fifty Shades of Grey a hype, in real life BDSM oriented people get to do with misunderstanding and they keep their sexual orientation secret.»
«People often say that there is something ‘ wrong ' with them. But that's just like asking why gay on people like the same sex. They consider it their identity»
“According to penal law, you cannot agree to have inflicted pain on yourself. People are entirely dependent on the goodwill of justice.”
“Fifty shades of grey confirms the public misconception that abuse is the origin of bdsm desires”
“Penal law still allows interfereningwith bdsm, because of considerations of public health.”
“Public moral and respect for human dignity still prevail over sexual liberty, risking that sexual freedom will be reduced to a commonly accepted standard.”

"Bdsm is still considered as a psychopathy."

"People will not come out, because they fear discrimination or losing their job."

A grab of citations how bdsm is still regarded today, on Planet Vanilla.

Otherwise, I would sign in immediately!:)

One side of the road is for boys, the other for girls.
Enjoying the view of the crucified ladies at the other side of the street (and enjoying that I am in their view (and the spectators') among others!:D)

What would be on the noticeboard? :
"Have fun! Join us!"

And Imagine the exclamations when they find them

Which in my case would be :
"We already knew he was weird somehow!"
"Yeah, but we never thought it was that bad!"


there already is one in San Francisco (naturally) called Folsom Street Fair
Just a question : what about Burning Man as a trial ground?
 
Loxuru makes a good and valid point. The sad reality is that with our current conservative-thinking western governments, we are more sexually repressed (or at least we're supposed to be) than at any time within most of our living memories. To paraphrase Soft Cell's "Tears Run Rings" - They're bringing back the old ways to please the few remaining old fuddy-duddies :(
 
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