Interesting idea there Loxuru but I cannot help but wonder if that might not be the very attraction for some women. Historically women are notorious for loving a good execution think of the
tricoteuse or the fearsome reputation of Afghan women in the 19th Century. Men reduced in status, discarded, made vulnerable, safe objects to vent your spleen as they are turned into refuse to be cut from the herd and denied further existence.
I think there are plenty of women out there who enjoy a good vulnerable male, they may not want to mate with him but they can still enjoy his suffering. There are an awful lot of hetero dommes and sadistic women out there in the physical scene.
I also think we need to be aware of the whole "sexual" thing, crux is never about straight forwards sexuality in the first place and for some connoisseurs is far more about aesthetics or symbolism than sex.