BDSM poll for doms

[god6669182]

I prefer total submission with no limits.

As a Dom and Sadist I have limits that I will never cross. The sub does not factor into these - they are established by me and for me.

In real-life play I respect all boundaries that are agreed upon in advance. I am a man of my word and a man of discipline.

My preference is to have someone who enjoys the thrill of putting themselves totally and completely at my disposal, for whatever I may wish to do.

 

[Shamefan]

I like reluctant but slightly naive girls who can be controlled and manipulated to submit.

 

[Domcrux7303]

As a switch who likes to sub, I’ve noticed that people playing as dominants have different preferences. Do you prefer a sub who is completely submissive, or is a little sassy talking back more fun? Do you want to train someone who’s wild and free into someone who never disobeys? Would it be best to have someone disobey sometimes so they can be punished?

Discuss

I like my sub to be mildly disobedient. I find it makes the session more fun. I enjoy the pushback and the exchange

 

[Tmaster]

I like my sub to be mildly disobedient. I find it makes the session more fun. I enjoy the pushback and the exchange

Yes, an insolent little wench who needs to be taught a lesson could be quite fun.

 

[Domcrux7303]

Yes, an insolent little wench who needs to be taught a lesson could be quite fun.

Agreed

 

[mare24]

Tree prefers a resistant sub... He decides if training her is worth the effort. Of course, the consequence for her disobedience does have a price!!!
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Death is punished for no listen master .....fair

 

[Online_Ratt]

For me, a lot of the satisfaction is in overcoming a fighting, struggling woman, so a CNC relationship is important to me. My very first girlfriend, Kristine, cemented this taste in my head one day when she invited me over while her parents were out. As I came in, she screamed, “A burglar!” and then alternately ran away from me around the house and “defended” herself with a kitchen knife. Eventually I tackled her and realized that she was grinding her groin against me, so things continued. Afterwards, she went back to making her supper and small talk without another word about it. We found several ways for her to indicate without having to verbalize to me that she was ready for something spicy, like going to a thrift store together and getting clothes where she said, “Hmm — I don’t know. It looks like it might rip pretty easily.” When she wore them, I knew the night would be fun. Getting her from active resistance to obedience was fun then and has continued to be so with new partners.

 

[Cruxfet]

As a maso sub I like to start out disobedient (eg refuse my master's sexual advances) and be corrected by increasingly severe punishment in his dungeons by muscular guards. Naturally I resist until completely crushed and am obedient for a time but relapse and have to be returned for more physical abuse. I ensure this cycle keeps repeating because I so enjoy the instruments of pain and the rapes by the dungeon hunks (as they give me the best orgasms ever!)

I agree, I would love to be trained from wild to complete submission

 

[cynthia the inocent]

I like when she is totally submissive. My Favourite question is: Now you tell me what you don't like, so I can do it to you.

tickling

 

[Loinclothslave]

I have noticed of late that the “brat” dynamic has become more prevalent.
This seems to be a later generation thing than what I have experienced in the past.
This relationship predicates it’s existence on the fact that the brat is constantly pushing the boundaries of it’s “Daddy” to secure punishments and be put in line…only to fall out of that line and seek further disobedience.
This seems tiresome to Me and I don’t think I’d enjoy the constant adversarial struggle in the day to day.

As a true slave, brattiness has no appeal to me. Because I am a born masochist, pleasure from pain is a reward that I must earn. Punishment for bad behavior means something else…

For Me, I enjoy molding the submissive into something that will please and serve Me in specific ways.

That is the right way, a slave should strive only to please it’s owner.

Even if the slave has previous experience, it needs to be remade into the ideal piece of meat that I control.

Yes, your slave belong to YOU, it is YOUR right to make it please YOU!

Conditioning a slave into total subservience through rigorous Training, both psychological and physical.
This consists of rules to be memorized, orders to be followed and protocols to adhere to.

And a true slave will thrive under such a regime!

Punishments meted out and made to reflect the failures of the slave-cunt and reenforce the meditation on the Corrections.

It is only fitting for a slave to reflect upon its numerous shortcomings

As a Sadist, I Torture my slave-girls for the sheer personal pleasure of it that I find.

Is it alright if the slave derives pleasure from such attention?

Currently, I am renditioning others further to the status of cunt, lowest of the low and this is the most challenging of journeys.
The slave once known as Eulalia here is undergoing rigorous reconditioning this way.

This one strives to be even half the slave the cunt formerly known as @Eulalia is. It’s surrender is so complete, it is an exemplar to aspiring true slaves everywhere!

As a cunt that belongs to Me, total and swift obedience is expected and the repercussions of failure to do so comes with a heavy price.
A cunt looses it’s status of female, slave, even lower than a whore.
it is not allowed personal pronouns as it has become a “thing”.

Property has no status beyond that it is owned.

So, defiance is not tolerated for long.
Submission is an ongoing destination and the Corrective measures taken to Train the cunt to obey is the journey.
At least, for Me and My cunts.

this slave understands this to be the ideal form of enslavement. Total surrender and obedience, answering the fickle whim of it’s controlling owner…

 

[bindhertocross]

I don't know why it has occurred, but I have always attracted subs who are new, a bit older, and want to experience many aspects of the lifestyle.

I give them a list of acceptable activities, BDSM objects etc. which probably number over 100, and when they return them, almost every box is checked as a YES (do it to me) or a MAYBE, there would be very few in the NO column.

As such, I would have to select some activities from my long list and do it to them "just because I want to".

 

[tamarisk94]

Partial obedience. As slaves, I expect them to obey my every command, but I also find futile resistance hot. There's just something about a pathetic slave trying to fight back, even though they know it will only lead to even harsher punishments.

 

[bindhertocross]

Whilst I would prefer without limits, one has keep things safe.

So would need to be with limits.

There has to be an agreement between dom and sub, a matching between what they each want in the relationship, including limits. Safe, sane and consensual as they say.

 

[Cruxfet]

There has to be an agreement between dom and sub, a matching between what they each want in the relationship, including limits. Safe, sane and consensual as they say.

I totally agree. However, I've had fantasies about consensual non consensuality. That would of course require extreme trust in your top.

 

[Kathy]

There has to be an agreement between dom and sub, a matching between what they each want in the relationship, including limits. Safe, sane and consensual as they say.

I agree 100%

 

[CCG]

If I can weigh in, I’m also a switch like the first post claims for themselves. I think I am comfortable with the dom position given that my sub and I get along. I had a relationship once with an ex who was in a submissive role with me. I thrived in that relationship and think back to it often. I’d take them and pin them against the wall even though they were taller than me. As we are both lanky people, I had the opportunity to show off my strength in certain moments like resting their back against the wall while their legs wrapped around me and I held onto the bottom of their legs, to support the extra weight. It felt amazing. I really miss it.