I have trouble with the whole BDSM thing. I'm turned on by movies I women being whipped, but I'm uncomfortable with that aspect of myself. I'm not judging anybody else, OK, but when I was about 7 or 8, I discovered what are now called "men's sweat" magazines, the ones with titles like For Men Only and Stag, etc. They were right alongside the comic books I loved so much.
There is a part of me that cannot stand images and stories featuring people being bullied, especially when they're having their rights violated. I have never been able to watch Roots, for example. Schindler's List. I walked out of Titanic because of the way the girl's family was treating her. So it's no surprise that I have trouble with my feelings about porn.
I'm not judging anybody else here. Nor am I trying to come across as any sort of moral arbiter of "acceptable" behavior. I'm just trying to tell you who I am. I am still getting used to meeting people (yourselves) who don't think I'm terrible for being who I am.
So if you're still with me this far, thanks. Maybe this wasn't the best place to bring this up, and for all I know, one of the admins may take it down. I'm not someone who pretends very well.