Here's one way I punish, usually young girls (adults of course and with the girl's consent) because young girls are usually more shy than 30 or 40 year old (or older) ladies. Before the spanking, the girl has to strip completely naked, stand in front of me (I'm usually sitting on the sofa) facing me, put her feet about shoulder width apart and spread her labia with her fingers (pubic hair must be completely shaved). This is how she must stand while I lecture her on her behavior, explain the offense and tell her what punishment awaits her. After that, I perform a "body check" - I squeeze her breasts and bottom thoroughly, squeeze and pull the nipples, stretch the labia, squeeze the clitoris, insert my fingers into the vagina and anus. After that, the girl has to take a place on the punishment bench, always in a very open position - chest pressed to the bench, back arched as much as possible, bottom high in the air, legs spread wide, so that during the spanking her lady parts are fully exposed. After this, she receives her spanking on the bare bottom (sometimes also on the vulva and anus) with a leather belt, strap, cane or switch, she herself always has to count the received blows out loud. Often after spanking I fucked her anally.