My Master is 72, and He has no problem whipping me. As you may recall I am in a long distance relationship with Him but when I visit Him for 2-3 weeks He enjoys whipping me every day. Usually at least two sessions. You may also recall I’m a terrible masochist who desires lots of lashes… He loves whipping me just as much as I like being whipped. Then plenty of loving Aftercare. The right man will certainly love giving you the kind of whipping you want, and He will build up trust and friendship before touching you so that you can build up slowly and carefully. Hopefully to full arousal and whatever climax you seek. I have heard of octogenarians still active in bdsm, as you well know- age is no barrier to our kinky desire!
Just be sensible, vetting any potential partner carefully (talk to his previous play partners, ask around in kink community if He’s a respected sane Dom, that sort of thing). Meet each other first in a safe space, and discuss honestly your personal needs and be sure to point out your lack of experience. A caring Dom will listen and I bet won’t be deterred so by your second or third meeting will carefully introduce you to the dark intoxication of whip and flogger…
I highly recommend you read up on safe words (I highly recommend the traffic light system as it offers a way to provide feed back instead of solely a stop signal), vetting, Safe Sane Consensual Kink, and RACK principles. You can find out about what these all mean on various kink sites. Of course I’d be delighted to speak to you via PM… I’m only sorry I’m half a world away!
But I am convinced your age is not nearly as big a barrier as you fear! Talk to me anytime.