welcome my beloved bardslave no not from Amsterdam but from VroomshoopI'm okay guys, sorry if you've been worried - but nice of you to think of me!I've been a bit unwell, taking a break, back now just to help with moderatingbut I'll take things quietly for a bit.And, no, I was teasing - I haven't even clapped eyes on 50 Shades,friends who have say it's dire, especially the totally vacuous female character.Connie's the redhead here, I'm brunette.Hugs to you all!