Very important, please take some time to read
My dear readers, I need to make a very important statement. A DM reached me and I will not say this user's name. It's content is very important and I cannot ignore this. Further, I will answer this message in public to make sure, that everybody can see my statement and avoid more misunderstandings.
The person who wrote me the DM was deeply disgusted and terrified by my story. The person further accused me of the glorification of crimes like the Inquisiton, murder, rape and violence against women. Now you understand, why I will answer public. Those are accusations, that I take serious and I want not this person but everybody to know, what my intentions are, why I am writing this story and what I think about REAL violence.
Dear person, who wrote me this DM. I think, you only joined this forum recently. Otherwise you would know, that there are lots of posts, over thousands, with extreme images and storys of rape and torture. Why you picked exactly mine to complain about, I cannot guess. But I can understand, that contents like this can be disturbing, when you are new in this deep and extreme area of BDSM. Please let me therefore explain a few things to you and to everybody else, who is reading my story and might not be sure, how to understand it as well:
BDSM is a play with dominance and obdience. The tops getting aroused of controlling the subs, the subs getting aroused of being controlled. Depending on the person, this fetish reaches different extremitys. If you prefer softer vanilla play in a "Shades of Grey" style or dislike BDSM at all, this is your decision and it's absolutely okay. But others love it the harder way, as you can see for example in erotic videos by "Elite Pain" or "Insex". The most harsh fantasys you will find on sites like this one. See, being abducted, tortured, raped or executed is the most hardcore fantasy in BDSM, because it is the absolute level of being totally overthrown and dominated. You can't help yourself anymore and are in the mercy of severly sadistic persons. But please listen now very close, because this is highly important: It is still only a fantasy, a roleplay to which all persons agreed before. Yes, they play, that they are raped against their will and that everything happens without their permission, but they just PLAY it, because they are aroused by it. And there is no way, in which a person, who is killed in a roleplay dies in REAL LIFE. The sub might be harmed, but that as well happens with permission and requested. Yes, it is very dark and wicked, but you can be sure, that everybody is satisfied in the end. Same goes for statements like "women are worthless fuck meat". No men inside the BDSM scene does really mean that. They just give the female subs what they want and only if the female subs want it. Nobody of us seriously thinks that way. Yes, there are men, who have this opinion for real, but I am disgusted by them and there is no place in the BDSM scene for those idiots.
That brings me to my next point. You, my dear person, accused me of glorification of violence against women, Inquisiton and so on. As I mentioned, my story and Inquisiton fantasys take place in the priorly mentioned shapes. But they are inspired by a historical event. The real Inquisiton and witch huntings took the lifes of millions of innocent humen. And this did not happen in the mentioned area, it were just horrific crimes against humanity. Please be assured, that I don't glorify the brutal murders on innocent women, which occured out of any religious madness. I hope, that the REAL victims of the Inquisiton can rest in peace today in a better place. What happened to them was an outrageous injustice. War, torture, imprisonment, rape, violence against women and violence at all are still issues in our world today and that makes me deeply sad. When I watch, how the poor women are treated in Afghanistan by the Taliban, I could cry and I support their fight for their rights. But this problem occurs everywhere. Even in the western world, women have to fight with men molesting them or approaching them inappropriatly and this is not acceptable and must not happen. I wish, that everybody out there, if man or woman, can live in peace and harmony, in a way that makes him or her happy. My story or these cruel roleplays here have nothing to - absolutely nothing - with my or others believes about the world outside of this BDSM place here. I hope, dear person who texted me, that I was able to make you understand some things and comfort you. If you are not comfortable with this deep contents, please leave this forum and live in peace. I hope you have a beautiful day and life.
Greetings.
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