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Being a Single Sadistic Male SUCKS!

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Mortarion86 said:
Okay, I have a question for those who have real experience in such relationships. What are my chances of success if I am a complete amateur, that is, all my knowledge about BDSM is purely theoretical? What kind of woman is better to look for - one who already has some experience in this area or one who is about as inexperienced as I am? And what is better - to immediately honestly admit that I have no experience, or to still not tell the whole truth about my experience (or rather, its absence)?
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As others have said, be honest. It is much better to tell a potential partner up front about your experience or lack thereof. Just understand that you need to start slow. You don’t go straight from riding a bike to driving a car, let alone piloting an aircraft.

Find someone who is willing to play with “training wheels” as you learn. Build your skills, and with them your confidence. If you get the chance, go to a play party and observe. But be aware that a) many people there have been doing this for years, even decades; b) many are exhibitionists, and playing to “show off”; and c) everybody needs to play safe.

My slave and I engage in some kinds of play that upsets the SSC crowd, but we only proceed when we both understand and agree that we accept the risks (RACK).

Good luck!
 
being a single female wannabe victim sucks too :///

yeah, i know what you're thinking, and it's possibly true if we're talking about just getting laid or having some BDSM play, but finding real sadists who are ready to act upon it? no f. way, they're few and far between (and, often, super far away even if you meet some on the net)

heck, when i was sillier i had a "crazy eager stage" and did everything that is supposed to be super dangerous for us girls ---and absolutely nothing happened! i even made friends with a bunch of nice homeless illegal immigants who lived in an abandoned house in a solitary pine forest at biking distance from home, who eventually came to be super protective of me! XD
 
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scrofetta said:
yeah, i know what you're thinking, and it's possibly true if we're talking about just getting laid or having some BDSM play, but finding real sadists who are ready to act upon it? no f. way, they're few and far between (and, often, super far away even if you find some on the net)
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All I can say is, we are out there. But all of us hardcore S-types or M-types are pretty rare. The people who see an evil stick and think, "Ooh, yes!" instead of "Hell, no!" are few and far between.

You may have to start L/D or virtual to start with, but as you both establish your shared likes, you hopefully reach a point where you are ready to meet in the real world. That's how I got into all of my S&M relationships.

So good luck to you!
 
scrofetta said:
being a single female wannabe victim sucks too :///

yeah, i know what you're thinking, and it's possibly true if we're talking about just getting laid or having some BDSM play, but finding real sadists who are ready to act upon it? no f. way, they're few and far between (and, often, super far away even if you meet some on the net)

heck, when i was sillier i had a "crazy eager stage" and did everything that is supposed to be super dangerous for us girls ---and absolutely nothing happened! i even made friends with a bunch of nice homeless illegal immigants who lived in an abandoned house in a solitary pine forest at biking distance from home, who eventually came to be super protective of me! XD
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Very interesting point of view!
 
scrofetta said:
yeah, i know what you're thinking, and it's possibly true if we're talking about just getting laid or having some BDSM play, but finding real sadists who are ready to act upon it? no f. way, they're few and far between (and, often, super far away even if you meet some on the net)
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Well, my Death play room is open to you.
Lots of Skewers for your breasts X
 
scrofetta said:
being a single female wannabe victim sucks too... finding real sadists who are ready to act upon it? no f. way, they're few and far between (and, often, super far away even if you meet some on the net)
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I'm the dude of which you speak, at least I'm ready to go as far as you consentially want and allow.

Like you said, it feels super niche, I don't know the numbers but it definitely feels like I'm the only one in Nottinghamshire (and surrounding counties!)
 
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