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Cancer child's secret message on back of her mirror found by dad after she died
A young girl who was dying of cancer left a heart-rending 3,000-word message hidden on the back of her mirror.
Just days after 12-year-old Athena Orchard's death last Wednesday, Athena’s dad Dean was stunned to discover the long note written in marker pen.
The message was penned after Athena was diagnosed with cancer following her discovery of a tiny lump on her head last December.
Distraught Dean was unable to read to the end as his daughter gave her thoughts on life and approaching death.
Athena wrote: “Every day is special, so make the most of it.
“You could get a life-ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day. Life is only bad if you make it bad.”
Last Christmas, Athena collapsed at home in Leicester and the family feared there was something seriously wrong.
She was diagnosed with osteosarcoma and had chemotherapy for cancer in her spine, her left shoulder and her head.
She also had to have a seven-and-a-half-hour operation to remove the tumor on her spine and wore a wig to cover her hair-loss.
Despite these traumas, Athena’s note showed an unshakably positive outlook on life.
She wrote: “Happiness depends upon ourselves.
“Maybe it’s not about the happy ending, maybe it’s about the story.
“The purpose of life is a life of purpose.”
Dean, 33, said: “It was a stand-up mirror in her room, and it was always leaned up against the wall so we never saw behind it.
“She never mentioned it, but it’s the kind of thing she’d do.
“She was a very spiritual person. She’d go on about stuff that I could never understand - she was so clever.
When I moved the mirror after she died I couldn’t believe it – I saw all this writing. It must have been about 3,000 words.
“It’s so touching. When I first saw it, it just blew me away.
“I started reading it but before long I had to stop because it was too much, it was heartbreaking.”
Athena, who leaves behind six sisters and three brothers, wrote:
“I’m waiting to fall in love with someone I can open my heart to.Love is not about who you can see spending your future with. It’s about who you can’t see spending your life without. “Life is a game for everyone but love is the only prize.”
EXCERPTS FROM ATHENA’S MESSAGE:
“Happiness depends upon ourselves."
“Maybe it’s not about the happy ending, maybe it’s about the story."
“The purpose of life is a life of purpose."
“The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra."
"Happiness is a direction not a destination."
“Thank you for existing. Be happy, be free, believe, forever young."
“Love is rare, life is strange, nothing lasts and people change."
“Every day is special, so make the most of it. You could get a life-ending illness tomorrow so make the most of every day."