Things you really DON'T like

[SirMGBZ]

It really is nice to be welcome somewhere. I have nobody in my life that shares these interests. Hell, I even have safe words for bondage, even though I know I am never going to participate in real bondage. Not even sure I would know how to fake it in a fantasy RP or chat either. I have no idea if these are cheesy or dumb safe words or not, but I have two
Moonbeam= keep going, but slowly, and Mint for stop. I really like Pale colors. I also like black though, so I may need to think up another one. Maybe I will be able to use them in an AI story sometime.

Well, now you have a few dozen pervs friends who share at least some of your interests, and aren’t freaked out by the rest.

But I am curious to know how you know you are never going to participate in real bondage? Back when I was your age, it was damn near impossible to find kinky folks at all. Now at least you have found a community. Who knows what might happen next.

 

[Darth Agonoth]

Gonna draw a distinction between "active urn-offs" and "stuff that just isn't specifically my kink," bc there's plenty of the latter and much fewer of the former.

Stuff that actually will take me out of the mood: scat, cannibalism, death. I like injury and even blood up to a point, but mutilation and dismemberment goes over the line for me. And like a lot of folks here, my fantasies tend to be based in the aesthetics and signifiers of NC punishment and torture, so any sort of contemporary "fun" or kitschy BDSM toys, outfits, or gear tend to lessen my interest.

I'm practically the same.

 

[IgnikaMarcus]

It really is nice to be welcome somewhere. I have nobody in my life that shares these interests. Hell, I even have safe words for bondage, even though I know I am never going to participate in real bondage. Not even sure I would know how to fake it in a fantasy RP or chat either. I have no idea if these are cheesy or dumb safe words or not, but I have two
Moonbeam= keep going, but slowly, and Mint for stop. I really like Pale colors. I also like black though, so I may need to think up another one. Maybe I will be able to use them in an AI story sometime.

Those are actually pretty creative for safe words. I like 'em.

Well, now you have a few dozen pervs friends who share at least some of your interests, and aren’t freaked out by the rest.

Also this.

 

[Loinclothslave]

It really is nice to be welcome somewhere. I have nobody in my life that shares these interests. Hell, I even have safe words for bondage, even though I know I am never going to participate in real bondage. Not even sure I would know how to fake it in a fantasy RP or chat either. I have no idea if these are cheesy or dumb safe words or not,

No such thing

but I have two
Moonbeam= keep going, but slowly, and Mint for stop.

Oh so you basically self-invented the traffic light system (you’re just missing green for keep going)

The key to a good safeword is that it be unusual enough you’re unlikely to use it in normal roleplay conversation

I really like the traffic light system, here’s how’s I use it:

Green for keep going is “please have mercy” - mercy the keyword

Amber for slowly, I’m ok but please be slow, I simply say “Amber”

And Red/ STOP RIGHT NOW is “chandelier”

Like you I sort of invented it before hearing of it, and in my case I had a “keep going” green word, and a STOP word.

When I heard of the system, the middle option made sense and “Amber” seemed an obvious choice.

I really like Pale colors. I also like black though, so I may need to think up another one. Maybe I will be able to use them in an AI story sometime.

Use whatever you like just make sure your Dom understands what they mean.