If I may,
@wulf , I’ll use your handy list as a starting point for my own dislikes in this context
... I never had the opportunity to do anything bdsm related in real life (and I'm a bit long in the tooth to start now),
Here we differ- I’m actively involved in a CNC LDR and definitely have practiced many such activities but not all that I want to. Of course, I live on the other side of the lash as receiver/ masochist/ slave. As I am pretty certain that
everyone here already knows!
so my preferences are strictly about the fantasy world where the only limits are your own. My tortures\ fantasies are extreme, but even I have limits.
I have fantasies that go beyond what I’d actually do in real life, such as being tortured to death/ burned at stake/ crucified with nails, etc
All my answers apply to
real life play:
…
Death of my victim. I consider it a sad waste of females. In my world they always live to suffer another day.
I tend to agree, endless torture is way hotter, especially when it’s me!
Dismemberment, gore, mutilation. A little bloodletting during torture is ok, but that's about it.
I love bloody whippings and certainly have leaked a little during various sessions- it’s hot. But no to dismemberment/ heavy gore/ mutilation
Scat, urinating, vomiting. No.
Not a fan of scat or vomit at all…
Water sports? I’m generally a fan!
Underage anything. Enough said
Yep, shouldn’t need saying
Any sex or tortures involving animals of any species. Just turns me off.
Same, maybe a goat licking my scourge wounds- because it hurts me… only a fantasy.
Shoes. Even in my youth I never liked seeing women tied up wearing shoes, especially heels. I have not changed my mind about that.
Yeah barefoot is much better, as long as I’ve had my fetish I didn’t want any kind of footwear
Shibari. Leaves me cold, if not actually bored.
Jeez, have you ever seen it live? I find shibari really hot both as observer and receiver
Oooh not me, I love a lot of kinky hentai
Breast bondage. I was never a huge fan of it, and am even less so today. I would much rather see them tortured that turned into purple balloons. I don't mind large breasts really within reason, but I'm more interested in their shape than their size. I'm also not a fan of breast hanging in RL, and would leave that to the fantasy realm.
While I agree it’s wonderful to have my breasts (and especially my nipples) tortured, I love a bit of breast bondage too! I’ve never witnessed anyone suspended by their breasts, sounds hot to me, a pity mine are too small
Anal sex. Doesn't appeal to me at all.
Yeah me either, except as an act of degradation and extreme humiliation…
Rubber wear and fetish clothing. I can take it or leave it. My victims are always naked.
Well, I think everyone knows my answer to this! I definitely have a rather specific clothing fetish and also branch out to include occasional cross dressing and am curious about latex
Hot irons. Though I favor medieval tortures, I avoid the red hot irons that mutilate the body permanently in my fantasy world. I'm not a fan of minimal branding in RL either.
Oh boy, I’ve had this particular fantasy like forever. This is why having a safe sensible partner is important to me, I really would like to be branded, at least in my head. But Master refuses. Oh, cold branding is fine, wax play is fine, just not actual torture brands. I admit in the “Heat of the moment” (if you pardon the pun) I would like to try a red hot branding somewhere on my body..,
Humiliation. In RL or fanatasy, it just turns me off. Being naked, helpless, and tortured is in itself humiliating, but forcing my victim to degrade herself just turns me off.
I love being humiliated in play
There are probably others that I can't think of right now, but I've covered most of them I think.
Seemed pretty comprehensive, good list! Thank you!
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