It amazes me as well. I guess I'm just a little jaded when I comes to things I could do without having lived a long time and seeing the development of many things including the internet which exposes us to worlds we never knew existed. Some make me say AHH! YESSS! and some get a HELL NO!! and that's our prerogative. To each his own is in itself a "Golden Rule" to live by.
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Things you really DON'T like
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SirMGBZ
Governor
How very true! If only someone had thought to answer this post by distinguishing between their R/L don'ts and their fantasy don'ts. Oh, wait, somebody did. ;-)
Slavesteffi
Magistrate
I hate depictions I see of girls with their breasts all tied up so they look completely horrible especially girls who are blessed with larger breasts than me. I don't get the kink being honest.
Also any kind of possessiveness both on here and in RL. I'm a free spirit and no matter our interaction you don't own me or my time. If I'm talking to someone else don't get mad at me and then go all strange and distant or worse badgering me till I'm thinking about your behavior weeks later when asked about things I dislike.
Also any kind of possessiveness both on here and in RL. I'm a free spirit and no matter our interaction you don't own me or my time. If I'm talking to someone else don't get mad at me and then go all strange and distant or worse badgering me till I'm thinking about your behavior weeks later when asked about things I dislike.
Zephirantes
Governor
Yeah, me too.
In my fantasies I'm all for nipple torture, but at the same time I don't like the idea of breast torture and binding.
Also, I don't like big titties in general, really: to give you some examples, India Summer (see my new AI-generated avatar based on her), Alyssa Reece, Wenona, Elise Graves, Tiffany Tatum are among my very favorite porn actresses.
They are all very different (age, height, hair color, face shape, behavior, attitude at acting, and so on and so forth...), what they have in common is they are rather small breasted and I love them that way.
Then again, I can make exceptions in exceptional cases: I like some Cherie Deville movies (there's one with her being crucified! and another one with her riding a wooden horse!), but I like her despite being 'well endowed', not due to that.
Well said, possessiveness is always a red flag!Also any kind of possessiveness both on here and in RL. I'm a free spirit and no matter our interaction you don't own me or my time. If I'm talking to someone else don't get mad at me and then go all strange and distant or worse badgering me till I'm thinking about your behavior weeks later when asked about things I dislike.
I agree wholeheartedly that death is a turn off for me. And, I know that the whole premise of Cruxforums is about death. But there are so so many other things on here to enjoy and the site admin needs to be commended for allowing other avenues for those of us who bark up another tree. It really is what I wish DeviantArt was in regard to BDSM art. Those that DA bans ultimately flourish elsewhere and all you have to do is look here to see the type of artists and story tellers that congregate under the Cruxforum banner.Anything that results in death … and yes I know but there is plenty of other stuff on here I like
SirMGBZ
Governor
My wife slave always says,”BDSM is like Walmart. There are plenty of things available, but you are not required to buy any specific thing.” I both agree and disagree with you. I agree that crucifixion is not really my kink like it is for so many others here. But I disagree regarding erotic snuff. Death per se is not my kink, but erotic snuff is. The fantasy that, even though the victim can’t take any more torture, they will be made to, even if it kills them, is just super hot, to me!
But again, this is a big tent, and I’d like believe that we are all welcome here, so long as we remember the motto: you can disagree without being disagreeable. ;-)
Kreuziger77
Executioner
My porn, when i was 14, Uhura from Star trek. Hot legs and perfekt Dekolleté.
Kreuziger77
Executioner
Isn't this the goal of a sadistic man;-)
dfg42
Consul
In my opinion nothing which modifies the "holy" body is out of discussion. I naturaly understand the origin of crucifixion as execution methods. I am however a man of the 19th or better 22th century, so execution is done by a shooting squad. The modifications naturaly include nails (why making new holes, when there are already one, or two there to put in objects?), castrations (oh my god, that is my favorite body part, did I showed it already?), scratching, cutting, breaking bones etc.
Modern crucifixion however should go to the possible limits one can be done without harm, such as a sports event, and indeed I would like to see that instead of soccer games, or so.
Modern crucifixion however should go to the possible limits one can be done without harm, such as a sports event, and indeed I would like to see that instead of soccer games, or so.
Diany
Spectator
So, I looked around and found out that there's a lot of stuff I don't like.
Some really bother me, like snuff and scat, and all the mythology about women's stockings (I can barely stand wearing socks).
Same thing for the fetishism of high heels (I'm already 185 cm tall, if I wear heels I hit the ceiling)
But besides me, they don't look good on other girls either.
Then the latex, or those strange leather harnesses
Then all that mystical air surrounding bdsm, stuff like Histoire D'O and the like (maybe I don't like all those men in 19th century shirts).
Body modification tends to scare me a little, I mean piercings and expanders are ok, and I also find horns under the skin funny (no I would never do them) but the rest honestly bothers me.
As I read from many, I don't even like shibari, on a model in a photo it can be aesthetically nice, but if you spend half a day tying me up I get bored, I mean, once you've tied my hands and feet I'd like to be tortured or fucked. Maybe I could bring something to read in the meantime.
Some really bother me, like snuff and scat, and all the mythology about women's stockings (I can barely stand wearing socks).
Same thing for the fetishism of high heels (I'm already 185 cm tall, if I wear heels I hit the ceiling)
But besides me, they don't look good on other girls either.
Then the latex, or those strange leather harnesses
Then all that mystical air surrounding bdsm, stuff like Histoire D'O and the like (maybe I don't like all those men in 19th century shirts).
Body modification tends to scare me a little, I mean piercings and expanders are ok, and I also find horns under the skin funny (no I would never do them) but the rest honestly bothers me.
As I read from many, I don't even like shibari, on a model in a photo it can be aesthetically nice, but if you spend half a day tying me up I get bored, I mean, once you've tied my hands and feet I'd like to be tortured or fucked. Maybe I could bring something to read in the meantime.
Amen, Diany. Every single thing you mentioned is on my do not like list. You are preaching to the choir!! Thank you, Ma'am.
SirMGBZ
Governor
You have definitely summed up both my feelings about complex bondage, and my reasons for disliking it. I am lazy, and impatient. Torture and sex are the goals for me, and bondage is simply a means to an end, but not an end in and of itself.
But for those of you who enjoy it, by all means pay me no heed!
StarbuckSlut
Magistrate
stuff i dont like?
Needless gore without any set up. Dont get me wrong i have extreme and bloody fantasies by the lead up and pagentry is where its really at.
Poop and pee...not good for me! Doing it in fear for shame purposes maybe...but not pee and poop as a sexual act.
Needless gore without any set up. Dont get me wrong i have extreme and bloody fantasies by the lead up and pagentry is where its really at.
Poop and pee...not good for me! Doing it in fear for shame purposes maybe...but not pee and poop as a sexual act.
wulf
God-Emperor
We are much alike in that regard. I never had the opportunity to do anything bdsm related in real life (and I'm a bit long in the tooth to start now), so my preferences are strictly about the fantasy world where the only limits are your own. My tortures\ fantasies are extreme, but even I have limits.
These are strictly my preferences for what turns me off in art, films, or photos.
Death of my victim. I consider it a sad waste of females. In my world they always live to suffer another day.
Dismemberment, gore, mutilation. A little bloodletting during torture is ok, but that's about it.
Scat, urinating, vomiting. No.
Underage anything. Enough said.
Any sex or tortures involving animals of any species. Just turns me off.
Shoes. Even in my youth I never liked seeing women tied up wearing shoes, especially heels. I have not changed my mind about that.
Shibari. Leaves me cold, if not actually bored.
Manga art.
Breast bondage. I was never a huge fan of it, and am even less so today. I would much rather see them tortured that turned into purple balloons. I don't mind large breasts really within reason, but I'm more interested in their shape than their size. I'm also not a fan of breast hanging in RL, and would leave that to the fantasy realm.
Anal sex. Doesn't appeal to me at all.
Rubber wear and fetish clothing. I can take it or leave it. My victims are always naked.
Hot irons. Though I favor medieval tortures, I avoid the red hot irons that mutilate the body permanently in my fantasy world. I'm not a fan of minimal branding in RL either.
Humiliation. In RL or fanatasy, it just turns me off. Being naked, helpless, and tortured is in itself humiliating, but forcing my victim to degrade herself just turns me off.
There are probably others that I can't think of right now, but I've covered most of them I think.
John Delves Richardson
Tribune
I had actually forgotten something.
I literally hate it when the victim is innocent, naive or chosen randomly (i.e. the girl next door), with the consequence that I discard all the serial killer/maniac stuff.
But. Spies are OK, policewomen, undercover agents are OK, traitors, criminals, assassins as victims are OK.
Of course, and especially in the case of particularly juicy pictures that might involve that type of victims, I feel free - if possible - to invent a story that satisfies my personal criteria.
Fetishes can be SO complicated,
I literally hate it when the victim is innocent, naive or chosen randomly (i.e. the girl next door), with the consequence that I discard all the serial killer/maniac stuff.
But. Spies are OK, policewomen, undercover agents are OK, traitors, criminals, assassins as victims are OK.
Of course, and especially in the case of particularly juicy pictures that might involve that type of victims, I feel free - if possible - to invent a story that satisfies my personal criteria.
Fetishes can be SO complicated,
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wulf
God-Emperor
Yes, very complicated.
I'm actually the opposite with my vicitimology. I much prefer them to be totally innocent and undeserving of what's going to happen to them.
As the guy hired to crucify the condemned, I never bother to learn if they are guilty or innocent. They aren't paying me and it is really not my problem...