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Gina Davis? is that the girl who was tied to the water wheel
in another movie, she was a secret agent. the first time i saw
that movie scene i had one hell of an orgasm, what a wonderful
way to be tortured. only disappointment was, he did`nt drown her
Yeah, that's her. That movie, "The Long Kiss Goodnight", was directed by her then husband. They got divorced about a year later. Not sure if there's a connection.
Oh, and she spells her name Geena.

I've never been married. I have had a couple of girlfriends willing to try a little light bondage (tied to bedpost, tickling, spanking) when I suggested we try it. Neither real got into it and we never went further.
 
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I never was into the S/M side of BDSM. But the strangest thing (to me) I ever did was when I had bought some rope to tow my broken car home. The girl I was dating was an upstanding Catholic girl that would do oral sex but wouldn't have intercourse because that 'was a sin' and she was 'saving' herself for marriage. She came to my apartment to help tow my car back (Yes, Barb, it was the Mustang!!!) and saw the rope sitting on the bed.

She said to me if I tied her spread-eagle I could take her and she wouldn't mind at all...

Tree

...the car didn't get back until the next morning!!!

That was one lucky girl i bet she still remembers her first time
 
Yes that`s the one Jedakk, i have been rummaging through the junk box
and found the dvd i thought we still had it. in the movie i know it was
supposed to be torture, but, oh come on, if i ever got lucky in that
position i would never want him to stop, i often wonder just how some
of those actresses feel doing scenes like that

I actually never saw the movie but I missed a lot around that time, living in the Middle East from 1990-2013. And yes, I sometimes wonder how much of that is really acting when you see a woman bound to a torture device like that, or like Natalie Portman in "Goya's Ghosts," naked and about to be hoisted up in the strappado torture. I bet it's really easy for them to get into character!
 
Did anyone here managed to persuade his own wife to try bdsm crucifixion? If yes, please tell me how!

We are a young married couple, and my wife knows nothing about my cruxfetish. Of course I often have fantasies about her being crucified, but I never mentioned it to her. We didn’t play any bdsm jet. The most perverse thing we ever did were footfetish games.

We are more atheist than religious, and she even thinks some things about Christian religion is kinky, or ridiculous.

How would you persuade her to try out bdsm and crucifixion? Is there any working trick? (The „just go on, and tell her” strategy is too risky for me. I don’t want to divorce already.) Please help me!
I think the best you can do is first finding out carefully how she feels about BDSM. Bring it up on an occasion, e;g. when you talk about something rather mainstream BDSM, like 'Fifty shades of gray'. Look together to a mainstream movie with soft bondage scenes, and find out how she reacts, particularly when being together in bed afterwards. Try a few times, so you better know how she feels about it : disgusted, indifferent or excited.

Only it the last case, you could proceed and suggest for instance to have her blindfolded, or her wrists tied above her head with a ribbon, during sex. But always let her 'ask' for it. Don't force things.
 
I never was into the S/M side of BDSM. But the strangest thing (to me) I ever did was when I had bought some rope to tow my broken car home. The girl I was dating was an upstanding Catholic girl that would do oral sex but wouldn't have intercourse because that 'was a sin' and she was 'saving' herself for marriage. She came to my apartment to help tow my car back (Yes, Barb, it was the Mustang!!!) and saw the rope sitting on the bed.

She said to me if I tied her spread-eagle I could take her and she wouldn't mind at all...

Tree

...the car didn't get back until the next morning!!!
presumably she didn't need to confess it as a sin,
as she had no choice! :devil:
 
presumably she didn't need to confess it as a sin,
as she had no choice! :devil:
I doubt she did... what did amaze me was the number of young women that had no problem- dare I say a desire- for bondage.

Andras, you may have a lioness that wants to play... I do suggest you keep BD crux in your pocket for a bit...

Divorces can be expensive!!!!
 
I think a good many girls find the idea exciting -
but most are inhibited about admitting it, even to ourselves. :oops: :D
 
I think a good many girls find the idea exciting -
but most are inhibited about admitting it, even to ourselves. :oops: :D
I agree. In my youth (and I was a 'late bloomer' sexually) till now I was mostly monogamist but there was only one relationship I was in in that bondage was taboo... Why did I marry my first wife????:doh::doh::doh:
 
My wife and I have been together for over 50 years, and will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary in May. I've always kept my crux fetish separate and secret from her; the raciest thing she sees from me is the Sports Illustrated swimsuit calendar I put up every year in my man-cave office where I work. She often sees my grouchy side, but never the dark side that I share here, which would be way over the top horrifying to her sensibilities.
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It is hardly recommended to maintain your personal life: if you secretly have a girlfriend, a prostitute or other sex.
Also in interests may, no must be difference: music, literature or food.
When ever you confess, it ever could be a reason for blackmail and divorce.
 
I cannot believe more people don't share this with their partners! Very unhealthy!! I am with tree and eulalia on this. I think every woman is into bondage/bdsm. Every partner I've been with I have told and they love it. I start with pictures and stories alcohol and porn go from light bondage to soft torture to stories about torture and captured damsels. Execution and punishment for your crimes can come in a bit later. Honestly I'm a very sexual person and could not be with someone without exploring this fetish. If your with someone that doesn't like this stuff why even be with them!
 
I cannot believe more people don't share this with their partners! Very unhealthy!! I am with tree and eulalia on this. I think every woman is into bondage/bdsm. Every partner I've been with I have told and they love it. I start with pictures and stories alcohol and porn go from light bondage to soft torture to stories about torture and captured damsels. Execution and punishment for your crimes can come in a bit later. Honestly I'm a very sexual person and could not be with someone without exploring this fetish. If your with someone that doesn't like this stuff why even be with them!



Location:
In the dirtiest of places to help get us turned on.

I Do agree with that Joker, a girl has to be executed
in filthy disgusting surroundings, old disused buildings
with rats and vermin running around. in a shed with
all kinds of implements strewn around. a derelict
house with holes in the roof and a rusty metal bed
with a filthy stinking mattress where she is given
her final fuck. WOW, i have come over all funny.
 
I cannot believe more people don't share this with their partners! Very unhealthy!! I am with tree and eulalia on this. I think every woman is into bondage/bdsm. Every partner I've been with I have told and they love it. I start with pictures and stories alcohol and porn go from light bondage to soft torture to stories about torture and captured damsels. Execution and punishment for your crimes can come in a bit later. Honestly I'm a very sexual person and could not be with someone without exploring this fetish. If your with someone that doesn't like this stuff why even be with them!
I wouldn't say 'every woman' - as you say there are some who really don't want that sort of play -
nor that all of us who do find the idea of bondage - and even some torture and/or whipping - exciting,
won't be choosy about what kinds turn us on and how far to go.
In any good relationship both sides need to be gently exploring each other and themselves
(not that I'm the one to be giving such advice, I've learnt the hard way what happens if you don't!)
 
I wouldn't say 'every woman' - as you say there are some who really don't want that sort of play -
nor that all of us who do find the idea of bondage - and even some torture and/or whipping - exciting,
won't be choosy about what kinds turn us on and how far to go.
In any good relationship both sides need to be gently exploring each other and themselves
(not that I'm the one to be giving such advice, I've learnt the hard way what happens if you don't!)

I agree. Not just women, but people in general, range across a broad spectrum in their desire for bdsm play from zero to off the chart. Not every woman is going to respond positively or be turned on by the suggestion.
 
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