A question to consider would be... ignoring this site for a moment and casting an eye at the entire world in its amazing diversity, disease and depravity...
... what are the sexual fantasies most common among peoples who've lived for a long time under oppression and dictatorship?
Are those who live in it, more or less likely to dream up desires of torture?
I'd tend to doubt, at least for women.
Anyway already much lesser divergences of perspective bring forth differing desires
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https://www.politico.com/magazine/s...ntasies-republicans-democrats-politics-221919
Apart from the question of freedom to access.
And then again, this forum mandates the English language.
Which is not much of an entry barrier for those who post only images.
But to find resonance here as a storyteller you'd need either good command of that tongue, or a competent translator.
Most of the 'off-topic' discussions... jokes, randomness, banter, political discussions etc. are also firmly centered on the Anglospheric viewpoint.
With all that as given, it's no wonder that protagonists tend to be Anglospheric and when the backdrop isn't political dystopia or standard history (Romans, barbarians) it will usually be 'one of those foreign places where things like that could happen'.
The opposite perspective of course does exist... a lot of Western-created fantasies exploit 'Orientalist' tropes, but it's a peculiar conceit of the modern West that only our culture has created stereotypes. 'Occidentalist' fantasies just as well are present in the Arab world, which shape the views of Arab men of how to interact with the imagined stereotype of the 'Western woman'. Consider the fate of every single western woman in Season of Migration to the North ....