messaline
Crucified Amazon
You know my position : I'm not and never I'll be a permanent slave ; when, with Judith, we have bdsm'relations, I'm only a victim till that our game is finished ...
This side "slave" in fact, impede you for having to tell anything about your relations : she orders, you obey !
But it appears that Sylvia doesn't wish to always be your Dom, including the real life ...
So, in my opinion, try to have a real life full of love (it seems that it's already the fact) and let her ( following your wishes perhaps) to play the Dom during your bdsm'games ...
You'll see that it will be the satisfaction of you both and nobody of you will be frustrated or will have afraid to dive into an unknow domain ...
For the moment, it seems that it's the only way that you have to follow ...
But ....... it's only my opinion ...
This side "slave" in fact, impede you for having to tell anything about your relations : she orders, you obey !
But it appears that Sylvia doesn't wish to always be your Dom, including the real life ...
So, in my opinion, try to have a real life full of love (it seems that it's already the fact) and let her ( following your wishes perhaps) to play the Dom during your bdsm'games ...
You'll see that it will be the satisfaction of you both and nobody of you will be frustrated or will have afraid to dive into an unknow domain ...
For the moment, it seems that it's the only way that you have to follow ...
But ....... it's only my opinion ...