the genderizedI agree but what can we do ? Of course that we're yet the results of this patriarcal societe ; the question is : how can we escape out our old shell that we are accustoming to follow ? What amazon can tell me that she's totaly delivered from what she has been prepared ?
A vagina is a vagina and ask for to be fill in .
When we will find another kind of sexe, perhaps that we could come true amazons, completely untied from our fate : can the woman enjoy only by herselve and not using
the male penis, that they (men) have learned us ?
Ma
Hello Messaline
Hmm - worth contemplating about ...
For one thing, I feel they should less grab the old male sort of behaviour and find their own, genuin own perspective on things. As it is now, so often they adapt male behavior and turn it into their prove to be indpendant now. Are they? by allowing themselves to be guided by the old male track? I beg your pardon!
I feel, so far there is a lot of hustle about made up token things, there is a lot of ventilation about gendering language, the old German question arises once again which noun has which sexe adapted to it - often absurd sexes we have become used to. That's why feminists have made a big fuss about ALWAYS and EVERYWHERE includingn ALL sexes in naming a crowd: Ärzte/innen, Fahrer/innen etc whereby -innen stands for the female form of the word or subject, not by the way for innen = inside. Presently, all official parties are much under pressure to bring out their own 'gendering' for the part they are occupied with and call for always using the genderized form, which at times will produce irritating unnatural 'constructions' hard to read and harder to followo through substatial parts of a text - especially in juridical treatments where an evil minded advocate (M/F) could make the most of a defective text for his female client - just give it a thought. After all, now here and there indpendant thinking individuals have come up drawing notion on the immense extra care needed to always be with these new strict demands.
Myself I would propose another sort of gendering: that the word's sex is being considered indepedant of the person's sex, so that "der Pilot" doesn't say anything about the sex of the person being that pilot - could still be man or woman because the sex of the word has nothing to do with the sex of the person happening to fill in
this professsion. Then everything could stay much as it has become the use of, only our way of thinking has to change and no longer allow to transcribe the sex of a word to the sex of a person filing this idea.
I believe, all the hustle now filling the offices and schools with new books even,to fullfill this new demands of genderized language will eventually ease down if for no better reason simply because even the Germans have a limit of how much stress they can take to follow official oders before they simply fatique and give up making a big paper dragon.
That's why in cities with most "NO PARKING" areas, you see the most of cars parked without any discipline, like Munich is such a city where people simply don't care about things "verrbotten!" and hope for simply good luck!
Gee, a lot of people never learn to leave the car at home and ride an S-Bahn, U-Bahn or Bus instead.
One or two more words:
You wrote: >> A vagina is a vagina and ask for to be fill in .<<
Hm, interesting - I often have the impression women are free or largely of the drive of sex, therefore my experience (I do live in Munich, capital of the emancipated young women) would be: a vagina may be filled if her owner does not have other rules to follow, but if so she might dispose of the owner of the male instrument at any time by any means and feel no loss or discomfort of.
Further you wrote>> can the woman enjoy only by herselve and not using
the male penis, that they (men) have learned us ? <<
Oh, yes - easily. See, I had a relation with two young women who turned out to have become a couple during this, admittedly lose relation. I was about the last to have realized what was going on between them. Now, they felt free to stand to their feelings. Once we went out for a trip into the Bavarian landscape, they could have made me feel like a chauffeur if they wanted to (but that would then have been my last trip with them) but in fact they never gave me a feeling in this way. We were just three people looking for a nice summer evening. The American and the East-German women, both long and very slender, the first then just having become an aviation engineer and the second a state attorney (which at times and again caused interesting differences in how each one would attack a certain topic needing to be handled: practical / theoretical by law) had developed a tight and deep reaching personal relation which at times was both amusing to watch and comforting in allowing me to witness two very different people brought up in vastly differing families and still preserve the best of feelings for each other. Unfortunately the aviation engineer has since 'disappeared' to the US while the state attorney has taken her place in Magdeburg, so they are now departed half around the world - and yet keep the flame burning silently inside their hearts. We still hope to see each other again or just the two women.
I believe in many cases two women may have a deeper relationship than there is in the regular way.
Feel free to write again if you like,
best wishes
Denny